Comments for Revitalization's Weblog http://revitalization.wordpress.com For the curious, questioning, and wandering soul Tue, 10 Nov 2009 14:31:40 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 Comment on Do ugly people find love? by tina http://revitalization.wordpress.com/2008/07/02/do-ugly-people-find-love/#comment-100 tina Tue, 10 Nov 2009 14:31:40 +0000 http://revitalization.wordpress.com/?p=40#comment-100 to internally contracted ,i know how you feel,i dont go outside at all but just to give you hope i saw a guy on this morning programme in the uk and he was born with a deformed face and he met a lovely girl in the gym were he works who loves him just the way he is,i hope this helped a bit take care. to internally contracted ,i know how you feel,i dont go outside at all but just to give you hope i saw a guy on this morning programme in the uk and he was born with a deformed face and he met a lovely girl in the gym were he works who loves him just the way he is,i hope this helped a bit take care.

]]> Comment on Do ugly people find love? by internally_contracted http://revitalization.wordpress.com/2008/07/02/do-ugly-people-find-love/#comment-99 internally_contracted Tue, 10 Nov 2009 05:17:04 +0000 http://revitalization.wordpress.com/?p=40#comment-99 It is all the same for me..I am living with the pain and am destined to do it all my life..I am a 30 years old guy..so it's quite late already..these days, I am living far away from my home..in another country..some times, in fact most of the times life seems meaningless..living just for myself..but there is nothing I can do about it..when I was younger, I have always looked for love..it's of course not about a gorgeous girl..I looked some one simple who can accept me as I am...every time I had to end up with a "NO"..it's true I am ugly and shy and introvert too..there had been incidents when I have been refused with an explicit comment that I'm ugly...and this makes me feel down all the time and these days I have become so conscious about my looks that I tend to avoid people and tend to withdraw myself from all the good things that happen around me. I can hardly live with this humuliation and pain any more..I wish I could die..I cannot make it happen in reality until my parents are alive..I cannot let them die for me..but it has become really hard for me to go on with this pain.. and with the idea that love never gonna happen to me. It is all the same for me..I am living with the pain and am destined to do it all my life..I am a 30 years old guy..so it’s quite late already..these days, I am living far away from my home..in another country..some times, in fact most of the times life seems meaningless..living just for myself..but there is nothing I can do about it..when I was younger, I have always looked for love..it’s of course not about a gorgeous girl..I looked some one simple who can accept me as I am…every time I had to end up with a “NO”..it’s true I am ugly and shy and introvert too..there had been incidents when I have been refused with an explicit comment that I’m ugly…and this makes me feel down all the time and these days I have become so conscious about my looks that I tend to avoid people and tend to withdraw myself from all the good things that happen around me. I can hardly live with this humuliation and pain any more..I wish I could die..I cannot make it happen in reality until my parents are alive..I cannot let them die for me..but it has become really hard for me to go on with this pain.. and with the idea that love never gonna happen to me.

]]> Comment on Do ugly people find love? by Susie http://revitalization.wordpress.com/2008/07/02/do-ugly-people-find-love/#comment-98 Susie Sun, 13 Sep 2009 00:48:43 +0000 http://revitalization.wordpress.com/?p=40#comment-98 You wrote exactly how i feel... i find myself closing my eyes sometimes and just going "Imagine if...." but when i open my eyes -- I'm still alone I don't mind being single NOW but the thoughts of always being alone really does upsets me I hate being known as the ugly spinster... the single on at family events... no plus 1.. just me, myself and I.... You wrote exactly how i feel… i find myself closing my eyes sometimes and just going “Imagine if….” but when i open my eyes — I’m still alone

I don’t mind being single NOW but the thoughts of always being alone really does upsets me

I hate being known as the ugly spinster… the single on at family events… no plus 1.. just me, myself and I….

]]> Comment on Do ugly people find love? by tammy http://revitalization.wordpress.com/2008/07/02/do-ugly-people-find-love/#comment-97 tammy Sun, 30 Aug 2009 05:35:47 +0000 http://revitalization.wordpress.com/?p=40#comment-97 im ugly and my boyfriend loves me,some people can be cruel but im glad i know what there really like inside,you will meet someone and they will be worth waiting for,i wonder what made us think the ideal face was beautifull in the first place .good look. im ugly and my boyfriend loves me,some people can be cruel but im glad i know what there really like inside,you will meet someone and they will be worth waiting for,i wonder what made us think the ideal face was beautifull in the first place .good look.

]]> Comment on Do ugly people find love? by infinite http://revitalization.wordpress.com/2008/07/02/do-ugly-people-find-love/#comment-96 infinite Mon, 24 Aug 2009 00:15:11 +0000 http://revitalization.wordpress.com/?p=40#comment-96 yea it sucks lol yea it sucks lol

]]> Comment on Do ugly people find love? by Lonely Hearted http://revitalization.wordpress.com/2008/07/02/do-ugly-people-find-love/#comment-95 Lonely Hearted Sun, 23 Aug 2009 22:38:39 +0000 http://revitalization.wordpress.com/?p=40#comment-95 I thought you you were talking about me tht whole time. I feel exactly like that, it kinda shocked me. Guess Im not alone as I'd thought ^.^ Still Sad.. I thought you you were talking about me tht whole time. I feel exactly like that, it kinda shocked me. Guess Im not alone as I’d thought ^.^ Still Sad..

]]> Comment on Do ugly people find love? by infinite http://revitalization.wordpress.com/2008/07/02/do-ugly-people-find-love/#comment-94 infinite Mon, 17 Aug 2009 02:11:15 +0000 http://revitalization.wordpress.com/?p=40#comment-94 im 16 and going to start 11th grade soon and still havent had my first kiss yet im lonely ugly and very shy my little bro already had his first kiss and my older bro has a girlfriend they always seem happy and havin fun while i always stay home doing the same thing everyday and im sick of it my brothers keep calling me ugly and it hurts people say you'll find love when you least expect it but im always expecting to meet a girl i guess im to desperate and ugly and dont deserve to love anyone im 16 and going to start 11th grade soon and still havent had my first kiss yet im lonely ugly and very shy my little bro already had his first kiss and my older bro has a girlfriend they always seem happy and havin fun while i always stay home doing the same thing everyday and im sick of it my brothers keep calling me ugly and it hurts people say you’ll find love when you least expect it but im always expecting to meet a girl i guess im to desperate and ugly and dont deserve to love anyone

]]> Comment on Do ugly people find love? by Ally http://revitalization.wordpress.com/2008/07/02/do-ugly-people-find-love/#comment-93 Ally Wed, 29 Jul 2009 21:37:36 +0000 http://revitalization.wordpress.com/?p=40#comment-93 I really wish I could offer you some advice or even give you some consolation, but I'm in the same position. I never dated in High School or College, because let’s face it, no one was ever interested in me. And now I’m 23 and nothing has changed. I am very quiet, introverted and self-conscious, and what makes matters worse is that I am ugly. I have a lot to offer, but so far nobody has seen that and it hurts. Part of me still wants to fall in love and find my soul mate, but I am beginning to realize that just don’t have one. So I don’t know if ugly people can find love, I hope they can, although I couldn’t. I really wish I could offer you some advice or even give you some consolation, but I’m in the same position. I never dated in High School or College, because let’s face it, no one was ever interested in me. And now I’m 23 and nothing has changed. I am very quiet, introverted and self-conscious, and what makes matters worse is that I am ugly. I have a lot to offer, but so far nobody has seen that and it hurts. Part of me still wants to fall in love and find my soul mate, but I am beginning to realize that just don’t have one. So I don’t know if ugly people can find love, I hope they can, although I couldn’t.

]]> Comment on For a moment the earth has slowed down, the mind settles, and all that matters are deep breaths of pure, cold air. by ladyk http://revitalization.wordpress.com/2009/06/26/for-a-moment-the-earth-has-slowed-down-the-mind-settles-and-all-that-matters-are-deep-breaths-of-pure-cold-air/#comment-92 ladyk Fri, 26 Jun 2009 06:43:41 +0000 http://revitalization.wordpress.com/?p=117#comment-92 Hi... I love your writing... I hope you don't mind me adding you to my blogroll! Hi… I love your writing… I hope you don’t mind me adding you to my blogroll!

]]> Comment on Do ugly people find love? by Girl http://revitalization.wordpress.com/2008/07/02/do-ugly-people-find-love/#comment-91 Girl Wed, 10 Jun 2009 06:01:19 +0000 http://revitalization.wordpress.com/?p=40#comment-91 I know how this feels. I'm 23 now and didn't date until senior year of college! My first kiss was when I was 21. But I met the guy online. The other guys that I dated, I met at lounges. The guy I met online was decent. The guys at the lounges were sleazebags and didn't want anything serious. It didn't work out with any of them in the end. But I never meet anyone in class, at the bookstore, in a store, hanging out with friends, etc., which is the most ideal place in my opinion to meet someone. I've never had a long term relationship either. The longest relationship I've had is about 3 months! And I don't think I'm a bad person. My friends tell me that I'm a nice and kind person. I don't think I'm ugly, but I'm not beautiful either. I'm somewhere in between. I think I can look nice sometimes though if I put makeup on and such. I'm somewhat quiet and sometimes shy as well. But it seems that nice girls finish last too. Guys don't want to commit to us! I become a little bit envious when my friends constantly have boyfriends, and have guys who like them just like that. Wherever they go, they seem to meet a guy. That was never possible for me. And when I think of the reason, it's because they are attractive and some of them are nice too (they have the full package), but a few of them treat the guys like dirt, yet still they get the guys. Is it all about beauty? Because if it is, then I think finding someone will be impossible for me. Sometimes not so attractive people find love too. I wonder what it is. Is it their personality, or do they just have something special about them? If it's the latter, I wonder if I could ever have that special thing about me. I know how this feels. I’m 23 now and didn’t date until senior year of college! My first kiss was when I was 21. But I met the guy online. The other guys that I dated, I met at lounges. The guy I met online was decent. The guys at the lounges were sleazebags and didn’t want anything serious. It didn’t work out with any of them in the end. But I never meet anyone in class, at the bookstore, in a store, hanging out with friends, etc., which is the most ideal place in my opinion to meet someone. I’ve never had a long term relationship either. The longest relationship I’ve had is about 3 months! And I don’t think I’m a bad person. My friends tell me that I’m a nice and kind person. I don’t think I’m ugly, but I’m not beautiful either. I’m somewhere in between. I think I can look nice sometimes though if I put makeup on and such. I’m somewhat quiet and sometimes shy as well. But it seems that nice girls finish last too. Guys don’t want to commit to us! I become a little bit envious when my friends constantly have boyfriends, and have guys who like them just like that. Wherever they go, they seem to meet a guy. That was never possible for me. And when I think of the reason, it’s because they are attractive and some of them are nice too (they have the full package), but a few of them treat the guys like dirt, yet still they get the guys. Is it all about beauty? Because if it is, then I think finding someone will be impossible for me. Sometimes not so attractive people find love too. I wonder what it is. Is it their personality, or do they just have something special about them? If it’s the latter, I wonder if I could ever have that special thing about me.

]]> Comment on Do ugly people find love? by Girl http://revitalization.wordpress.com/2008/07/02/do-ugly-people-find-love/#comment-90 Girl Wed, 10 Jun 2009 05:32:10 +0000 http://revitalization.wordpress.com/?p=40#comment-90 you're a douchebag! you’re a douchebag!

]]> Comment on finding love isn’t easy, you have to be ready for it by revitalization http://revitalization.wordpress.com/2009/05/15/finding-love-isnt-easy-you-have-to-be-ready-for-it/#comment-89 revitalization Thu, 04 Jun 2009 06:56:52 +0000 http://revitalization.wordpress.com/?p=110#comment-89 First, I want to thank you for your comments. I usually don't respond to comments, but I feel I should here... First of all, you're young! Just starting high school- you've got time, a lot of time to find that person, that someone who fits you and belongs to you. You've got time. Please don't think that it's all about beauty, luck, and popularity-- personally, I don't think it's about that. It's about being real, honest and confident. I still think you do have to be open to love, while you may disagree, it seems to work for a lot of people-- being open means being ready, loving yourself and being ready to offer love. I'm not even sure I'm ready yet. And trust me, I've done my share of scoping guys while shopping--that's not how you meet him, even though that's how it's shown in movies. I think you meet that guy, that one guy, when you both a ready, when you both are in the same stage in life, when you both can offer each other something amazing and new and different. Don't get me wrong, I get it. Trust me. I get it. My friends, some are talking about getting married, some leap from boyfriend to boyfriend. But I think, I sincerely believe that I will have mine. And I think you will have yours too. First, I want to thank you for your comments. I usually don’t respond to comments, but I feel I should here…
First of all, you’re young! Just starting high school- you’ve got time, a lot of time to find that person, that someone who fits you and belongs to you. You’ve got time. Please don’t think that it’s all about beauty, luck, and popularity– personally, I don’t think it’s about that. It’s about being real, honest and confident. I still think you do have to be open to love, while you may disagree, it seems to work for a lot of people– being open means being ready, loving yourself and being ready to offer love. I’m not even sure I’m ready yet. And trust me, I’ve done my share of scoping guys while shopping–that’s not how you meet him, even though that’s how it’s shown in movies. I think you meet that guy, that one guy, when you both a ready, when you both are in the same stage in life, when you both can offer each other something amazing and new and different.
Don’t get me wrong, I get it. Trust me. I get it. My friends, some are talking about getting married, some leap from boyfriend to boyfriend. But I think, I sincerely believe that I will have mine. And I think you will have yours too.

]]> Comment on looking for love is lonely by sinisterdilemma http://revitalization.wordpress.com/2009/05/04/looking-for-love-is-lonely/#comment-88 sinisterdilemma Tue, 26 May 2009 18:29:45 +0000 http://revitalization.wordpress.com/?p=108#comment-88 yes. yes, waiting is lonely. i feel for ya. its the sotry of my life.. i just hope that this much waiting, and broken hearts, and pain and crying over someone who doesnt love you back is worth it..when you find that someone.. its the only string of hope ive got in me about this whole thing -sinister dilemma yes. yes, waiting is lonely. i feel for ya. its the sotry of my life..

i just hope that this much waiting, and broken hearts, and pain and crying over someone who doesnt love you back is worth it..when you find that someone..

its the only string of hope ive got in me about this whole thing

-sinister dilemma

]]> Comment on finding love isn’t easy, you have to be ready for it by sinisterdilemma http://revitalization.wordpress.com/2009/05/15/finding-love-isnt-easy-you-have-to-be-ready-for-it/#comment-87 sinisterdilemma Tue, 26 May 2009 18:27:00 +0000 http://revitalization.wordpress.com/?p=110#comment-87 im a teenage girl and ive had many people say to me "if you want to find love, be open to it! open your soul for love" and all sorts of crap like that. you know what ? i AM open! hell, yeah im open! but it just doesnt happen. it seriously doesnt! ive been to starbucks 100 times in the past few weeks, to the supermarket God knows how many times.. i know pretty much everyone in school. AND I JUST DONT FIND THAT PERSON so maybe being open isnt enough after all, i start thinking to myself. so ive thought about this a lot, and here is a list of what i think you need to find love: beauty, luck, luck, beauty, popularity, friends, beauty, lots and lots of friends, luck, courage, strings and some more luck. - sinister dilemma im a teenage girl and ive had many people say to me “if you want to find love, be open to it! open your soul for love” and all sorts of crap like that.

you know what ? i AM open! hell, yeah im open! but it just doesnt happen. it seriously doesnt! ive been to starbucks 100 times in the past few weeks, to the supermarket God knows how many times.. i know pretty much everyone in school. AND I JUST DONT FIND THAT PERSON

so maybe being open isnt enough after all, i start thinking to myself.

so ive thought about this a lot, and here is a list of what i think you need to find love: beauty, luck, luck, beauty, popularity, friends, beauty, lots and lots of friends, luck, courage, strings and some more luck.

- sinister dilemma

]]> Comment on Do ugly people find love? by sinisterdilemma http://revitalization.wordpress.com/2008/07/02/do-ugly-people-find-love/#comment-86 sinisterdilemma Tue, 26 May 2009 18:17:50 +0000 http://revitalization.wordpress.com/?p=40#comment-86 story of my life. wow, you just resumed everything i have ever thought about love, and my (nonexistent) love life. im a girl who will start high school after this summer and i honestly dont understand how some girls have bfs all the time, either. i have lots of friends who are NEVER single!! and its not like theyre such beauties, either! and yes, i also crave to be with someone who just..gets me! i just feel like itll never happen, though. and its not like im waiting for "prince charming" or some gorgeaus guy.. someone who is funny and..basically is nice to me. i admit i have a low self-esteem but i am not ugly and i have a good personality: i am fun to be around with, i am understanding and all my friends come to me with their problems.. its just that, guys ive met so far are so superficial- they dont give you a chance, they dont even try to get to know you, because youre just not as hot as they would like you to be! so im done believing this "inner beauty" crap, and i guess ill have to suck it up and accept the fact that ill probably never find someone suitable for me, at least not until college.. -sinister dilemma story of my life. wow, you just resumed everything i have ever thought about love, and my (nonexistent) love life.

im a girl who will start high school after this summer and i honestly dont understand how some girls have bfs all the time, either. i have lots of friends who are NEVER single!! and its not like theyre such beauties, either!

and yes, i also crave to be with someone who just..gets me! i just feel like itll never happen, though. and its not like im waiting for “prince charming” or some gorgeaus guy.. someone who is funny and..basically is nice to me.

i admit i have a low self-esteem but i am not ugly and i have a good personality: i am fun to be around with, i am understanding and all my friends come to me with their problems.. its just that, guys ive met so far are so superficial- they dont give you a chance, they dont even try to get to know you, because youre just not as hot as they would like you to be!

so im done believing this “inner beauty” crap, and i guess ill have to suck it up and accept the fact that ill probably never find someone suitable for me, at least not until college..

-sinister dilemma

]]> Comment on Do ugly people find love? by IdRatherNotTell http://revitalization.wordpress.com/2008/07/02/do-ugly-people-find-love/#comment-85 IdRatherNotTell Mon, 25 May 2009 16:38:43 +0000 http://revitalization.wordpress.com/?p=40#comment-85 wow. huh, i dont think ive read sth that i can relate to more!! every sentence is as if i wrote it! im glad u have ur hopes high about"if u r open, love will find u" but unfortunately, i dont even have that! i have a real low self-esteem, and the thing is that im not THAT ugly.. i mean, i have uglier friends that have had bfs. i have a friend that weights 2 times more than me (no offense, but seriously..) and she had 4-5 bfs! :( i dont think ill ever meet someone before im 18 or even 20! wow. huh, i dont think ive read sth that i can relate to more!! every sentence is as if i wrote it! im glad u have ur hopes high about”if u r open, love will find u” but unfortunately, i dont even have that!

i have a real low self-esteem, and the thing is that im not THAT ugly.. i mean, i have uglier friends that have had bfs. i have a friend that weights 2 times more than me (no offense, but seriously..) and she had 4-5 bfs!

:( i dont think ill ever meet someone before im 18 or even 20!

]]> Comment on finding love isn’t easy, you have to be ready for it by kasmawati http://revitalization.wordpress.com/2009/05/15/finding-love-isnt-easy-you-have-to-be-ready-for-it/#comment-84 kasmawati Fri, 15 May 2009 07:31:07 +0000 http://revitalization.wordpress.com/?p=110#comment-84 bsa tiidak crhat melalui program kmui disitu bsa tiidak crhat melalui program kmui disitu

]]> Comment on dusty footprints are swept away by With This Diet I Shed Thirty Póunds in Thirty Days http://revitalization.wordpress.com/2009/04/30/dusty-footprints-are-swept-away/#comment-83 With This Diet I Shed Thirty Póunds in Thirty Days Wed, 06 May 2009 13:35:44 +0000 http://revitalization.wordpress.com/?p=106#comment-83 Hi, nice post. I have been wondering about this topic,so thanks for sharing. I will probably be coming back to your site. Keep up the good work Hi, nice post. I have been wondering about this topic,so thanks for sharing. I will probably be coming back to your site. Keep up the good work

]]> Comment on dusty footprints are swept away by pinnythewu http://revitalization.wordpress.com/2009/04/30/dusty-footprints-are-swept-away/#comment-81 pinnythewu Thu, 30 Apr 2009 09:19:56 +0000 http://revitalization.wordpress.com/?p=106#comment-81 We are all tiny little cogs is the machine that is the universe. Each with it's own special, yet crucial function. We are all tiny little cogs is the machine that is the universe. Each with it’s own special, yet crucial function.

]]> Comment on You have yourself. So have yourself. Be yourself. by pinnythewu http://revitalization.wordpress.com/2009/04/29/you-have-yourself-so-have-yourself-be-yourself/#comment-80 pinnythewu Wed, 29 Apr 2009 10:28:02 +0000 http://revitalization.wordpress.com/?p=102#comment-80 What lovely rambling thoughts to have. When everything is gone, you have yourself. There is something strangely comforting about that thought. What lovely rambling thoughts to have. When everything is gone, you have yourself. There is something strangely comforting about that thought.

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